Father’s Day and Flag Day: Blood and Honor

I miss my father. Not a day goes by that I do not miss him. Not a day goes by as I remember, not only his contribution to my life, but his contribution to this country and to all nations being smothering under tyranny. He was a sharp shooter during WWII and landed at Omaha Beach on D-Day. And in a round about way, and in my unique way, I will seque to something entirely different but end up back here. And I know you will see the point I am making between our fathers who swear their blood and honor to take us through our lives and protect and guide us, and those soliders, past and present, who swear their blood and honor to protect us and to allow us our freedoms.

A few days ago, I was watching the movie, 47 Ronin. It is a faulty movie and much has been said about all that is “wrong” with it. But there is a scene that tells us, quietly and strongly, all that is right with it. The movie is based on a true story of feudal Japan. A shogun, lord of a province, was wrongly and deceptively killed – no honor by the persons involved. As a result, his samurai, loyal to him and his family and the people of the province they protected, became ronin (samurai without a master, a deep dishonor). Normally, they would have committed seppuku (ritual suicide), but they instead, plotted revenge so their wronged master could rest in peace, his honor restored, and the province united and freed from tyranny.

The leader of samurai, Oishi, brings his men back together to plan for this revenge. In a scene that had tears coursing down my face, they swore to bring honor to their master’s name and each one signed his name. They each pulled their sword enough to cut their thumbs and under their name, pressed their thumb sealing their pledge in their own blood.

Oishi told them, “When a crime goes unpunished, the world is unbalanced. When a wrong is unavenged, the heavens look down on us in shame. We too must die for this circle of vengeance to be closed – there is no other way…” (quote from 47 Ronin).  They pledged their lives to justice, just as countless men and women, through the centuries, have pledged their lives and their sacred honor.  With their inevitable deaths, they knew balance and honor would be restored.

I thought of this putting by of self for a greater calling.  My father did not know if he would live or die.  He only knew there was  a great wrong in the world that must be righted.  His brothers in arms were of like mind.  So are those today who seal their pledge to us with their blood – whether it is shed or whether it still courses in their veins until their hearts cease beating.

Let us honor today, those who do this for us.  I know my father is in heaven looking down on me and smiling.  My American flag will be proudly displayed for Flag Day.  Thank you to our fathers, uncles, brothers, cousins, friends who protect us.

Happy Father’s Day.  Happy Flag Day.  Bless you all.

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22 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Mustang.Koji
    Jun 15, 2014 @ 03:47:03

    What a moving tribute to your father, kanzensakura. I was unaware your father took part in that horrible day 70 years ago. If you were there, your soul changed for the rest of your life and ones that saw the carnage would never talk about it – not even with their wives or sweethearts as you know. Indeed, I hope he is at peace.


    • kanzensakura
      Jun 15, 2014 @ 10:37:30

      I know he is. He rarely spoke of the war and when he did, he would cry. I did a post about D-Day and posted a picture of him on his 21st birthday with his buddies in Paris. you can look at him and tell mischief was a part of him.


  2. Mustang.Koji
    Jun 15, 2014 @ 03:47:50

    ps Is that you with your father?


  3. FlaHam
    Jun 15, 2014 @ 06:14:19

    Kanzen, thank you for sharing a warm and touching tribute to your dad, placing his name with the samurai is indeed high praise. Something I know he earned both in your eyes and the eyes of the of brothers he served with, likw you my flag fly proudly each day. Take care, Bill


  4. lorriebowden
    Jun 15, 2014 @ 08:57:16

    So beautiful….Your love and honor for your Dad is so compelling. He is always with you in your heart. Blessitude


  5. macjam47
    Jun 15, 2014 @ 08:58:48

    What a deeply emotional and thoughtful tribute to your father!


  6. Let's CUT the Crap!
    Jun 15, 2014 @ 10:17:44

    How else to honor your father and the brave men who fought to protect us? Your moving tribute has me tearful. You are a wonderful daughter. I’m certain your father smiles down on you. 🙂 ❤


  7. johncoyote
    Jun 15, 2014 @ 12:14:36

    The old wars left men with permanent scars. I have read both book on Iwo Jima. So sad to fall in battle and Flags of our fathers. These were strong men who fought and died so we can be free. Thank you for the story. I understand the missing of laughter. My father fought in two wars and he enjoyed every day of life.


  8. huntmode
    Jun 16, 2014 @ 01:26:52

    Kanzen, as this Father’s Day draws to an end, I read your tale of your father. If I try to express what you evoked, it would be pages and pages. Thank you, Kanzen, for sharing your father with us. HuntMode


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