About

 

Welcome to my website – it’s South Meets East: Fried chicken and Sushi, magnolias and cherry blossoms, cut off shorts and kimonos. Haiku, recipes, Samurai, romance – oh my!  I’ve been writing since I was 6 and cooking since I was knee high to my papa and had to stand on a chair to watch him cooking.  I am a trained chef but escaped that scene to cook food I love for those I love.  I became interested in Japan –  history, food, culture when I was 11.  On a field trip to the Smithsonian for school, I escaped the gaggle of screaming kids and wandered. In the wanderings I discovered the Freer gallery and happy day! discovered Hokusai’s Great Wave on guest exhibit.  I stood enthralled in front of that small woodprint and was instantly captured by the detail and life.  Japan nestled in my heart from that day forward.

I am a Southern woman and was born into an old and eccentric Southern family; not like those dark and tortured families by Faulkner but more like the Addams Family if they spoke with a drawl, complete with odd relatives and odder friends.  I am known for my fried chicken, tater salad, Japanese Cotton Cheesecake, sunomono, and nanner pudd’n.  I write classic haiku, “free range” poetry, some fiction, some musings, and about cooking and family.  But sometimes, a bit twisted.  After all, Addams Family, y’all.

I am also a woman of the world having traveled extensively, several times to Japan and Europe and across the US and Canada. I make my own udon and sushi. I am a woman of the universe being a true geek and follower of Star Wars, Star Trek and have a couple of Next Gen style uniforms in my closet (engineering services).  String theory and origami make me equally happy and sometimes my humor is not quite…..normal.  My poetry isn’t that good but I keep trying.  Please comment and let me know!  I wrote my first haiku when I was six and there is a story about that. Some Interests are Cell Phone Photography , cooking, and food history. In my past I have done food photography and styling – freelance, bartended, autopsy photographer, ballroom dancing instructor, chef, and most recently, retired infrastructure engineer. Because I am only 4’10”, a katana is too long for me; therefore I wield a wakizashi: her name is Minimakaze (South Wind).   I go back to school in May for Pharmacy! (When Life throws you Lemons post.) I am married to a wonderful man who is every bit as odd as I.

I hope you will visit often and will follow my blog; it’s an odd mixture but that’s okay. Be welcome, be blessed and leave behind some of the happiness you bring (thank you Bram Stoker for giving those words to Dracula).

NOTE ABOUT AWARDS:  Effective 03/01/14 I am no longer accepting awards.  I decided instead of accepting or forwarding awards, I would instead take the time to make more comments and to reblog posts to show my appreciation for another blogger’s post.  .   But….I’m not giving up the Inner Peace award given to me by Clowie (WordPress blog: Clowie’s Corner).  She said it was how it made her feel when she visited my blog.  That is how I want you to feel – peaceful and welcomed. I keep this award as a reminder about my blogging goal: to connect, to help spread some kindness and grace in this often times unkind world, to make people smile, to encourage and be encouraged, to share good food and good times – to have an online virtual teahouse or coffeehouse where we can meet, talk, get to know one another.  This award serves as an active reminder of why I blog. (http://kanzensakura.com/2013/06/15/inner-peace-award)

So y’all come up on the porch and set a spell…  grins to you all.

182 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. aFrankAngle
    Nov 05, 2014 @ 20:09:52

    Love the comparison to the Addams Family but with a draw!

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  2. kabirgandhiok
    Nov 08, 2014 @ 17:13:22

    Your’s is one of the most welcoming and warm ‘About’ I’ve ever read 🙂 Happy to have found my way here.

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  3. jensenempire2551
    Nov 12, 2014 @ 21:30:15

    Hearts of gold
    loving stone
    chances of bold
    has throne a bone….

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  4. Tokoni O. Uti
    Dec 09, 2014 @ 12:22:30

    HI,

    I’m Tokoni, a student and poet. Its nice to meet you. I’d like to invite you to my blog at http://www.insanitybeautiful.wordpress.com if you’re interested. Thanks.

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  5. jhanagan2014
    Dec 11, 2014 @ 09:47:54

    I found you by following john Flanagan’s blog. Your interests, values, and words give me the feeling of taidaima.

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    • kanzensakura
      Dec 11, 2014 @ 10:35:33

      Okaerinasai. I am so glad you visited and hope you will always feel welcomed. Thank you for following my odd little blog. It goes in spits and spurts of recipes, poetry, musings….I also have a poetry only website: aki no koe I do like the picture of you and the lovely lady by the cherry trees. A dear friend of mine is from Osaka and taught me the proper way to prepare okonomiyaki. Osaka has good food!

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  6. Mary Kendall
    Dec 13, 2014 @ 16:24:50

    What a lovely “About” page you’ve written here. I can feel the southernness in your writing, and I look forward to exploring your blog at leisure.

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  7. lightwalker1
    Jan 13, 2015 @ 21:01:06

    You are right, you have a very friendly and welcoming voice. Your blog entices me to read more of the recipes, about yourself and getting to know you better. I look forward to learning more from you as I look around. In love & light Cheryle

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  8. Victoria C. Slotto
    Feb 10, 2015 @ 19:23:20

    I’m smiling, little Southern lady. You and your blog are a delight. So glad you are a part of my poetry world.

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  9. Arwa
    Feb 15, 2015 @ 15:09:39

    Hi. I nominated you to the Liebster award
    https://arwa13.wordpress.com/2015/02/14/liebster-award/

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    • kanzensakura
      Feb 15, 2015 @ 15:59:40

      Thank you very much for your nomination. My blog is a “no award” site. I do not accept awards but I do thank you for your kindness and thoughtfulness in awarding it to me.

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  10. lightwalker1
    Feb 18, 2015 @ 01:29:17

    I have nominated you and your blog for the Versatile Bloggers Award. I have appreciated your visits and comments and have enjoyed my visits to your site and hope others will too. You can view the nomination and the award criteria here. https://lightwalker1.wordpress.com/2015/02/17/versatile-blogger-award/ In love and light Cheryle

    P.S I’m not sure if you are award free because you decline them or have not been nominated. I apologize if it is the former. Kindest Regards Cheryle

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    • kanzensakura
      Feb 18, 2015 @ 04:19:30

      No need to apologize. I have been nominated for several awards but last year, decided to stop accepting them and spend more time recommending and reblogging, and being a good neighbor and visiting other sites and commenting. I truly do thank you for nominating me. I have enjoyed your blog very much and your visits. It is very kind of you to think of me! The only award I have kept and post is the inner Peace award, in honor of my father. My friend Clowie, at Clowie’s Corner, she is a Great Pyrhnees Mountain Dog, gave it to me because she said it was how she felt when she visited. I also keep it to remind me of why I blog and how we touch people in so many important ways. Blessings to you! PS I will do the blog tour things though in lieu of awards. That’s not a hint, LOL.

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      • lightwalker1
        Feb 18, 2015 @ 12:42:31

        thank you for replying so graciously. I understand. I have come to see how labour intensive these awards can be. Your friend Clowie sounds as loving as you. In love and light Cheryle

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        • kanzensakura
          Feb 18, 2015 @ 12:49:08

          I try to be kind to every one. I one time mistakenly (didn’t see or understand about no awards_ nominated someone for an award. You would have thought I had called her a bad name, she was so ugly about it and it hurt. I’m not bragging, but at that time, I was getting all kinds of nominations which I truly did appreciate and made me feel special. But between that unkind person and all the work, I decided to let them go. And that was just me. I think the nominating each other is a great way to build friendships, let other people know about other blogs they may have missed, a way to spread some cheer in this sometimes cheerless world. I am glad you are getting into these awards and getting nominations. Don’t forget to post on your blog or make a menu item so others comeing to your site can see them! We all have so much to share with each other. Keep up the good work.

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        • kanzensakura
          Feb 18, 2015 @ 12:52:04

          PS I think Clowie has moved from WP to another blogging platform, but I still get her posts via email. If you get a chance, check her out or on FB. She is a sweetie and has quite a few adventures, especially with her “bi-peds” and cats.

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  11. Björn Rudberg (brudberg)
    Mar 03, 2015 @ 07:37:47

    Hello Kanzen.. could you please send men an email on brudberg@gmail.com

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  12. Hannah Gosselin
    Mar 05, 2015 @ 14:41:45

    So glad to have crossed poetic paths with you! Your authenticity shines! ♥

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  13. dani
    Mar 10, 2015 @ 08:31:30

    i am so pleased to meet you, Kanzen! thank you for all of your kind words on my blog ~ we do have much in common from the mixture of what we write to our love of cooking and, as you say, being a bit twisted and eccentric (though i am sometimes downright strange.) {smile}

    please forgive me if my visits are brief or infrequent as my online time is limited, but i promise you i will be back as often as i can.

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    • dani
      Mar 10, 2015 @ 08:33:47

      oh, and i’m a big fan of science fiction (particularly books), Star Wars, Star Trek, Harry Potter (the books, not so much the movies) and all things hobbit.

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  14. Lerene Forte
    Mar 19, 2015 @ 01:02:49

    Addams Family with a drawl–Hilarious!! We do have some things in common–love of cooking, haiku and other poetry, and I have some southern roots too (though they may be more Faulknerian). Nice to meet y’all.

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  15. dilipnaidu
    Mar 23, 2015 @ 11:11:16

    Very interesting introduction. It is good to visit and understand different country cultures as it opens our mind and we learn to accept different perspectives. Wish you all the best.

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    • kanzensakura
      Mar 23, 2015 @ 11:21:58

      Thank you for your kind comment. I always like learning about different cultures and countries myself. We Southerners are naturally curious about our neighbors, no where they are! Thank you for visiting. I hope you will visit often and always feel welcomed.

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  16. Éilis Niamh
    May 10, 2015 @ 18:36:03

    I nominated you for a freestyle writing blog challenge. It’s fun, and maybe, unlike me, yours will be super interesting too! https://thesoundofwhathappens.wordpress.com/2015/05/10/free-style-writing-challenge/

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  17. Victoria C. Slotto
    Jun 05, 2015 @ 14:05:55

    I don’t (can’t) follow many blogs because of time constraints, but have added yours. I have a great appreciation of fiction writers from the South and just listened to a lecture on Japanese poetry and was really a draw. It was rather weird because it resonated so much it had me thinking that perhaps I was Japanese in a previous life…though I’m not sure about reincarnation. Ha!

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    • kanzensakura
      Jun 06, 2015 @ 21:36:38

      I have had to cut back on the ones I do follow, also because of time constraints. I thank you for following mine. I too felt that connection with the Japanese. The first time I went to Japan, I felt at home. Absorbed their culture, aesthetics, etc like a sponge and always enjoyed being there. I haven’t been for several years and feel a bit homesick, if that makes sense. I hope you will enjoy my blog. It is a mish-mash of South and East, including the recipes I post. Folks have fun and that is important to me.

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  18. Poetry by Tosh
    Jun 28, 2015 @ 21:42:04

    I love the contrast of south meets west. I’m imagining sitting under cherry blossom trees eating fried chicken and drinking sake… Enjoying your writing!

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  19. SalvaVenia
    Jul 09, 2015 @ 18:28:34

    Addams Family made me smile … :mrgreen:

    Greetings from Germany,
    Salva

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  20. DELL CLOVER
    Jul 13, 2015 @ 17:03:37

    Toni, I wanted to stop by and let you know that my blogs are currently Private, which only means I’m not working them–so there’s no need for you to request permission to read, IF you were intending to do that, as I’m not responding to requests. Not sure when/If I’ll be back–things are really BAD at the moment. But I’m keeping you and your husband in my prayers–and could sure use yours as well. God bless you ~~ Dell

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    • kanzensakura
      Jul 13, 2015 @ 17:12:13

      I am so sorry to hear this. Your presence will be miised. Other than prayers, let me know if I can help. My email is thspencer51@hotmail.com if you want/need to talk. I’ve lost three dear to me this year and don’t want you to be a 4th. Please keep in touch dearheart. ♡♡♡

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  21. petrujviljoen
    Oct 18, 2015 @ 06:18:05

    America in the South. Howdy!

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  22. Sherry Marr
    Nov 04, 2015 @ 16:02:57

    kanzen, would you please email me at WildWoman2@shaw.ca ? I have something to ask you. Thanks, kiddo!

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  23. Cherie - Studio Thoughts
    Dec 08, 2015 @ 10:47:59

    So glad to have come across your blog. Your fluidity of words and thoughts is a pleasure to read… can’t wait for more.

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    • kanzensakura
      Dec 08, 2015 @ 10:56:22

      Thank you so very much! My site has morphed into mainly poetry but there are still lots of recipes and musings in the archives. I hope you will visit often. Again, thank you.

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  24. Michelle Adam
    Feb 06, 2016 @ 23:48:55

    I enjoyed discovering your blog and look forward to more beautiful posts. You may be interested in my Journey of Spirit and Healing Blog, http://www.michadam.wordpress.com, which tells my journey behind the writing of my upcoming novel, Child of Duende, which is about a German girl born in Spain who is imbued by the spirit of the earth. I imagine you may really enjoy this, given your blog. Blessings!

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  26. ladynyo
    Aug 22, 2016 @ 18:35:38

    ROTF!!!! I am Southern, too….for almost 50 years now in Atlanta. I come from the North country….rural NJ….5 miles from Princeton. A very long time ago.

    So! You definitely sound like a poet I would want to follow and read….and comment! So glad to find your blog.

    I am barely 5’2″ and a wakizashi would be a good thing for me, also. LOL!

    Jane (Lady Nyo….who has a lot of your adventures. Except photo for autopsy. That takes balls. Belly dancing was the closest I came to mostly naked bodies.)

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    • kanzensakura
      Aug 22, 2016 @ 18:51:38

      I am glad you found my blog and hope you will enjoy. I have been wielding my wakizashi for nigh on to 30 years and take it very seriously, being a practioner and follower of bushido and the 10 commandments. It didn’t take any balls to do autopsy photography. It just took needing money (and making little off of food styling/food photography) back in the day, having a strong stomach and being able to follow instructions. I came upon it by accident one day while turning in a food shoot at the newspaper where I was a stringer. I attended a session along with 15 others and was one of two that didn’t pass out or barf. So we split several of the shifts between us. Back in the day before autopsies became so…scientific. LOL, one of the doctors would eat his lunch while working on a corpse – sandwiches, KFC usually. He’d perch the sandwich in its wrapper beside or on a leg or stomach of the corpse he was autopsying. Now that was rough to watch. An old lover of mine who came to forensics in the 90’s said it was barbaric. I guess. Considering it was up north, I mean, what can one expect? He was Japanese and furthered my education in the language, culture, etc. He also trained me in kendo and using a sword as a weapon. He was very good. never did belly dancing. too….wriggly for me but I certainly enjoyed watching it and be amazed at the movements.

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  27. ladynyo
    Aug 22, 2016 @ 20:56:17

    LOL! The autopsy! Marvelous instruction you had there. LOL! Things certainly change. I was trained in karate, kung fu actually, or a mixture of this. My husband was taught by a disciple of Bruce Lee back in the day. But he went on to different disciplines. I didn’t get very far…..a couple of belts but I think it is a wonderful discipline , especially for women. I am fascinated by Yamabushi, and am a follower of Shinto. New, but not so new. I have resolved religious/spiritual conflicts in this belief system. I am writing a lot on Yamabushi, and a Tengu (one of my very favorite mythological characters ….but are Tengu really mythological???) figured heavily in both my novel (in rewrite) “Kimono” and “Song of the Nightingale”. LOL!

    Kendo: marvelous! I have great respect for this discipline. I have been in workshops of longbow, but it’s a very stark discipline. I was in biochem. for a short while at Emory University here in Atlanta and there was a wonderful Japanese man who took my fencing foils and did a marvelous ‘dance’ in an elevator. He was so instructive…not in biochem, which he was, but in sword work. I could watch him for hours. Tragically, his wife accidently shot and killed him with a hunting rifle. I couldn’t believe it. That man had such vitality.

    I think, if we allow it, there are many influential people who enter our lives for long and short times. and if we listen and attend, we are much the richer for it. And when they are Japanese, I am definitely listening. My Japanese is terrible, but the sushi counter at Whole Foods are all ears and nice ones, too. LOL! They are a wonderful people.

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  28. Shawna
    Aug 26, 2016 @ 09:26:52

    This may be the best “About” page I’ve ever read. Fantastic writing and fascinating life story.

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  29. ladynyo
    Jan 31, 2017 @ 11:21:12

    Reading this before, I fell in love with you, Toni. Reading this again, I fell even deeper in love this morning…may your vitality infect the world!

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  30. Edward Hotspur
    Feb 17, 2017 @ 16:42:09

    Hello! Long time no see, or visit. Just slowly coming back to this blog land, and looking up friends I used to love talking to and reading, and there you were. 🙂 How have you been?

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